Flirting As The First Step In Seduction
by Paul Rodgers
Knowing how to approach women is a vital skill every man needs to know, because approaching women is the first step in
creating a relationship with the girl of your dreams. The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to
come off as non-threatening and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
The reason why men are generally not good at approaching women is that they don't do enough of it. The problem is that
approaching women is a learned skill, which means you have to do it and do it often to refine your craft. The golden rule
of flirting or dating and approaching women is not to use common pick up lines.
Approaching Women
Approaching women can be both easy and fun when you know how to do it right. For most of us guys, we experience intense
fear and shyness when it comes to approaching women that we don't know. Most men who have problems approaching women have
one peculiar thing in common: They are all expecting negative outcomes from the approach. Before you can become a master
of approaching women, you will need to recognize that being rejected by a woman does not say anything about you -- in
fact, it doesn't say much about her either. Finally, we come to a really important point about approaching women, and it
is this: all men get rejected.
If you're a guy who has struggled with approaching women and starting conversations, there is a very good chance that
this program contains exactly what you need to master this skill quickly and easily. However if you know and use the
secrets to approaching women, you could very well be surprised how women actually love it when men walk up and start up a
conversation. If you are a phony, you'll get called on it every time, so just relax a bit when approaching women and don't
be afraid to show some vulnerability (that is keeping it real). So the most important rule when approaching a woman is be
yourself. So, in order to minimize the embarrassment of rejection, and maximize your chances of success when approaching
women, it is important to understand as few basic points about the art of the approach.
When approaching women, it is important to make extended eye contact, but not so much that you look like you have
something to prove. Become confident about approaching and talking to beautiful women; be it talking, flirting or
seduction, it is a skill you can make part of who you are, making you easily be able to approach and communicate with
women no matter how attractive. Take precautions to conceal yourself while approaching women. If you do, this sends the
message that you are not feeling good about approaching.
Self-Confidence
I'm sure there's some great psycho-babble out there about how this relates to your "inner child," but it doesn't help
you learn how to approach women with confidence, so let's leave that out for now. If you get rejected by a woman, it is
not something to take very seriously, or let affect your confidence in any way. You should never let it undermine your
self-confidence.
One of the surest facts of life is that women are able to read men like books. To be honest, they can read practically
anything in our faces and there are men out there who've met ladies who could tell the size of their penis, bank account
and sex life in only one look. Of course, the look is likely to be followed by the lady's departure in the opposite
direction at full speed. Problem is that failure always leaves a mark on a man's face. It is also the same with success
too. And women are very skilled at reading those marks. It's even worse when you have a small penis and failure tends to
follow failure.
The level of confidence is the first thing women notice about a man because it's what interests them most.
A bigger than life kind of guy with a confident look in his eyes who walks with a swagger is sure to catch the eye of most
women, whether they're looking for a date or not. He may not get every single pretty babe, but he'll sure as hell be
noticed by each and every one. And nothing gives a man more confidence than a big penis because he can walk around with
an "I don't have a care in the world" kind of aura.
You can bet your life that women notice that. Women don't care a lot what a man says, since most men like to talk about
sports, cars, jobs and, women. But they pay strict attention to the subtle signs in a man's attitude. Women think: "If he
looks confident, then there must be something about him that makes him so confident. This could be interesting". And a big
penis is your ticket to that show of confidence that is not an act or a sham, but the real thing.
Become Successful
Even if you can get your courage up, there's no guarantee you're going to be successful, either. Being able to feel
confident and successful when talking to beautiful women has nothing to do with looks, it is an inner sense of being
comfortable with who you are. In fact, another thing I discovered was that instead of trying to find the perfect line or
impressive approach, the most successful technique to approach women is simply not messing it up. Learning the art of
approaching women can be the tipping point to help you cross that elusive threshold of social success.
The first and most basic step therefore in approaching women is to understand that rejection is a normal part of the
game of seduction. So guys, become one of the few men who realize that approaching women is a natural part of life, and
one that will likely bring great joy. For some, flirting is the first step in seduction.
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